I guess I have waited long enough to share my answers. Valerie pretty much got them all, but the rest of you were close too.
* submissive, but I can be dominant in certain situations
* loner - I wish I were more social.
* vanilla actions - kinky thoughts ;-)
* warm flannel sheets or sleek satin - a hard one for me, neither really, but if I have to choose, I will pick flannel. Satin is too slippery; I might slide out of bed.
* leader but I wish I could learn to keep my mouth shut like Valerie. :-)
* talkative, but if I'm around people I don't know, then I am very quiet.
* football -- Go Cowboys!!!
* golfing -- another hard one. I grew up on the golf course and love to watch it on tv, but I've been hiking in Big Bend twice and love that too.
* tequila or vodka - WINE - Tequila has been my nemesis, so I don't partake anymore. I will drink margaritas though. I really never drink vodka, never have.
* nerd and proud to be one! What Penny said is true, I do love books more than computers.